The survey unearthed common frustrations among Kenyan women who accused the men of not being intimate enough and having a tendency to lose interest, or even black out, soon after the act. He agrees that there are so many women who go through this and suffer in silence. Real reason why pastor called off Sh1 million Nakuru wedding. The experience was disgusting. TV journalist Dennis Okari ties the knot at secret wedding. Don't attack it like a thirsty dog. Ladies, who does that? Immediately after, men want to be left alone in peace. Take for instance the case of one Jacqueline, a hairdresser.